A non-integrated, consciousness-dominating ego expands as long as it has to rub against other matter, as long as it has to feel pain, as long as it has to defend itself by taking up all space, time, resources, etc. The ego is not integrated.
If there is nothing left to rub against in its system, then it can dissolve.
Pain gives birth to the ego.
Sunny is our dog. He is pure acceptance. He can dissolve, so to speak. Dissolve in the other. A special dog with a really special quality.
An Adhs child sits in front of Sunny – nose to nose – and goes into absolute deep rest. Why? Because Sunny is pure devotion. He is dissolved in the system child-Er in those moments. The child doesn’t rub against anything in that moment. And his ego goes to rest exhausted. Real, true peace reigns. The spiritual knowledge of security determines the child’s consciousness.
The goal is, in spite of everything, an ego integrated in a balance with soul knowledge in consciousness. A consciousness that knows out of itself about the psychic security.
But here again it becomes clear: pain first gives birth to the ego. Remove the system-immanent pain from our society and all children are again in deepest peace of mind. And the adults too.