It was all meant to be.
You could have done it differently. If you had wanted to.
Really? Where does that come from, the wanting?
From YOU. It is YOUR wanting.
But what makes me want? Why do I sometimes want and sometimes not? Is it not an ability? A wanting ability? Is this ability not sometimes given to me and sometimes taken away? Who is it that wants me to WANT? Is not then everything that happens wanted? But not by ourselves?